we often discuss about the traffic problem we face in Bangalore... everybody has a view as to how to improve this... trust me everyone!well this post is not about improving traffic sense in us... (i plan to write a post on that soon with Ashwin's advice)... but about something else..... traffic was an example i chose to explain this topic "be what you want others to be"..... we often say, "people don't follow rules , that's why we face so many traffic jams".... but how many times we ourselves cross the yellow line make things worse for people on the other side..
I'm sure, now you know what I want to say…...for example,
If you are some one who doesn't like being questioned, check if you are not questioning someone!
If you are some one who does not like being ordered, be sure, u are not ordering some one else...
If you are some one who feels bad if some one is not appreciating your efforts, be the one you want others to be..start appreciating!
Its a simple rule ,don't do what you don't want others to do! or behave like what you want others to behave!Probably its very tough to implement but for sure makes life very much better.......if not anything, at least you'll realise how tough it is not to do what you don't want others to do....
what do you think?......